Supporting Sanity in Insane Times

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There is no handbook for these conversations — but we don’t have to navigate them alone.

Last night, I picked up my child from college for Presidents Day weekend. As we drove home, they began talking about what they were learning about the Epstein files and the impact those conversations are having. I have always been open to difficult conversations with my kids. Being accessible to them has been a lifelong priority. But I never expected to find myself sitting in a car having a conversation like this — talking about power, harm, and the possibility that people across politics, medicine, religion, and culture could be implicated in actions that are deeply disturbing and almost impossible to fully comprehend.

I wasn’t prepared for that moment. I don’t think any of us really are.

Whether every claim proves true or not isn’t the point from a parenting perspective. The reality is that our kids are encountering information that feels heavy, destabilizing, and overwhelming, and they are bringing those questions to us. They are trying to make sense of a world that often looks darker and more complicated than the one we imagined they would inherit. And as parents of young adults, we are being asked to sit beside them in that uncertainty without always knowing what to say.

There is no handbook for sitting beside your child while they try to make sense of a world that feels darker than the any you imagined for them.

Parenting doesn’t end when our children grow up; it changes shape. When they are young, we guide from the front. As they become adults, we walk alongside them. The conversations shift from instruction to exploration. We listen more. We hold space instead of providing answers. We learn how to stay grounded even when the topics feel uncomfortable, complicated, or overwhelming.

Over the past weeks, I’ve realized how many parents are quietly navigating similar experiences. Conversations that feel bigger than everyday parenting advice. Moments where we recognize that the old scripts don’t apply anymore. Many of us are trying to remain steady while our young adults wrestle with difficult realities, and at the same time we are processing our own reactions, fears, and questions. What seems to be missing is a place where parents can talk about this honestly without it turning into debate, analysis, or pressure to agree.

Out of that realization, I’m opening a small facilitated support space for parents of teens and young adults who are finding themselves in these kinds of conversations. This is not therapy, and it is not a debate space. It is simply a structured environment where parents can speak openly, listen deeply, and support one another in staying grounded while navigating uncertain times. The intention is to create a steady, thoughtful container where complexity is allowed and connection is prioritized.

If you are a parent who has found yourself thinking, “I never expected to be having these conversations,” you are not alone. Supporting Sanity in Insane Times is an invitation to sit together in that reality and support one another in staying present, thoughtful, and grounded while parenting young adults in a complicated world.