Supporting Sanity in Insane Times
Parenting young adults means sitting beside them as they try to make sense of a world that can feel heavier and more complicated than we imagined. This post reflects on that experience and introduces a new facilitated support space for parents navigating hard conversations together.
What Is a Predator?
What actually defines predatory behavior, and why is it so difficult to recognize while it’s happening? This essay explores predation beyond stereotypes, examining individual dynamics, relational patterns, and systemic structures that allow harm to persist.
Weaponized Agency When “Choice” Becomes an Alibi for Harm
How the language of “choice” is used to minimize abuse, deflect accountability, and protect power—historically and in plain sight.
The “Perfect Prompt” Is a Lie
You don’t need perfect prompts to use AI well. Clarity—not cleverness—is doing the real work.
Silence Is Not Professional
ICE, accountability, and the cost of silence — why neutrality is not professionalism when institutions avoid scrutiny.
What If the Cost of Care Is Your Comfort?
What if caring means learning to tolerate discomfort—so we don’t keep outsourcing it to each other online?
Upstream, Downstream, and the Laundry
A frozen washer drain turns into an unexpected lesson about effort, emotional power, and what happens when you stop paddling upstream.
Integrity Ain’t Easy
Integrity isn’t a vibe. It’s a practice. From dropping gossip to naming my neurodivergence in interviews, I’m learning what alignment costs… and what it gives back.
Festivus for the Rest of Us: Neurodivergent Holiday Survival Guide
A shame-free, trauma-informed guide to neurodivergent holidays: sensory supports, social boundaries, scripts, and physical accommodations to reduce overwhelm.
The Trick to Success in New Roles Is Not What You Think
The real key to success in a new role is not confidence or expertise. It is the willingness to be new.
The Storm I Called Peace
When peace comes at the cost of truth, it isn’t peace at all.
The Storm I Called Peace explores how conflict avoidance erodes integrity and how learning to stand in the storm can rebuild connection, inside and out.
Curiosity: The Conscientious Objector to Cognitive Dissonance
Cognitive dissonance teaches us to doubt what we see. Curiosity is how we find our way back — to honesty, to agency, and to the truth that belonging without integrity is not belonging at all.
Disrupting Rumination with Recursion
I used to ruminate until it burned me out. Then I learned to disrupt the loop — by using recursion as a way to think again, differently, and finally move forward.
Emotional and Psychological Control | Freedom Starts in How We Treat Each Other
Most abuse isn’t visible. It hides in confusion, charm, and control. This piece explores the reality of emotional and psychological abuse, the way it reshapes our definition of freedom, and how we can begin to rebuild both safety and self-trust.
Navigating Burnout in a World of Threats and Misinformation
When the world feels loud, our nervous systems feel it first. For neurodivergent adults, the constant noise of misinformation and threat rhetoric can accelerate burnout. This piece explores how to protect your energy, set boundaries with information, and re-anchor in what restores you.
Job Searching as a Polymath: A Choose Your Own Adventure
Some people follow a straight path into one career. I never wanted that. For me, job searching has always been more like a Choose Your Own Adventure — each role a new chapter, each change a chance to grow.
50 Years In, Still Learning How to Be Me
At 50, I’m not “late.” I’m right on time. As a late-diagnosed neurodivergent adult, I’ve learned that clarity, compassion, and sustainable systems matter more than chasing “normal.”